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ENJOYING
YOURSELF LIKE MAD
We
won't list here all the possible ways of having sex because it could
be a repetitive and boring description. I would however like to
stress that penetration is only one of the possible options and
it's not necessary the most enjoyable.
Getting
physically close in all possible ways can also be very delectable.
Knees, shoulders, back, and ankles, you could play "possessing"
an underarm or the bend of a knee. Girls can enjoy themselves sitting
astride their boyfriend's back. The lower back and the upper buttocks
that precede the coccyx perfectly match the female pubic anatomy.
But even the instep or the knee can offer a suitable surface. Indulge
your fancy. And don't forget that our ancestors had prehensile feet.
Whatever you choose, remember to always act gently. They are delicate
areas.
Using
creams or oils or shampoo can be a good idea. Lubricating is often
indispensable if you want to give pleasurable sensations. But in
these games, as altogether in sex, the attention towards the other
and the willingness to say what you don't like without inhibition
is first and foremost indispensable.
If this effort to communicate isn't made (which among other things
is enjoyable), the quality of sex and the pleasure that you get
from it won't improve.
Advice,
in short, cannot be communicated with a book. You have to ask the
person involved directly, because each time, each person, is different.
Providing a general idea can however be useful. It is very pleasurable
both for a man and for a woman to be touched "there" always
in different ways, alternating very light and localized caresses
on the more sensitive areas with fuller and more involved touching.
Caressing
or kissing even the peripheral spots of the sexual areas is very
pleasurable. As is very pleasurable the alternation of stroking,
licking, sucking, scratching, pressure, puffs, gentle brushing,
very light pinching, swashing, and tickling with hairs and with
the hair on your head. Anything you think up is fine. If you want
to stick to regular things, remember to kiss a certain part while
you stroke another. You can do it by kissing and stroking at the
same rhythm, or at alternate rhythms, syncopated rhythms, and parallel
offsetting rhythms. At different speeds.
The
important thing however, I repeat, is that you should try to understand
what is more pleasurable. When you then discover that your partner
likes something in particular, don't stop there. Making love always
in the same way loses appeal and becomes tiresome. Only the continuous
search of the infinite possibilities of getting physically close,
kissing, and caressing each other can give you a pleasure that is
always new and always great. The sensations of pleasure are like
music. The more you listen to it, the more you take the time to
enjoy it and the more your capacity to "listen to it"
grows.
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